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Showing posts with label Discouragement. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Discouragement. Show all posts

Sunday, July 4, 2010

These things I have spoken unto you, that in me ye might have peace...

In the world ye shall have tribulation: but be of good cheer; I have overcome the world.

This has been an interesting couple of weeks.  I can't say I have had tribulations, but I have been feeling a little down.  Summer brings a change of schedule, new demands, and expectations that are sometimes difficult to fullfil.  I guess I have been feeling as if I don't measure up. We have all been taught the answers to every need is in the scripture, so I looked up depression in the Topical Guide.  It referred me to despair or sorrow.  I can't say that I am in despair, so I followed the TG to Sorrow.  Sorrow seemed more fitting.  In trying to stay true to my original idea of studying the life of Jesus and passing the stories on to my children I found John 16:20.
20 Verily, verily, I say unto you, That ye shall weep and lament, but the world shall rejoice: and ye shall be sorrowful, but your sorrow shall be turned into joy.

Christ is talking to his disciples.  In John 14, 15, and 16 he is preparing them for the time that he will leave them.  He tells them they will not be alone, they will have the Comforter, the Holy Ghost.
John 14
1 Let not your heart be troubled
16 ...and he shall give unto you another Comforter,
that he may abide with you forever.
17 ...for he dwelleth with you and shall be in you. 
18 I will not leave you comfortless:
I will come to you
26 But the Comforter...shall teach you all things,
and bring all thing to your remembrance,
whatsoever I have said unto you.
John 15
11 ...my joy might remain in you, and that your joy might be full
16 But when the Comforter is come...
even the Spirit of truth..he shall testify of me. 

How can this knowledge help me? My children? How can my sorrow be lifted?
Through the still small voice, we can learn of Christ and our Father in Heaven. 
Their purpose is the same.
They want us to return to them.
That we might have peace. 

In John 16, Jesus continues to teach us how we will still have Sorrrow, but that is helps us understand Joy.
21 A woman when she is in travail hath sorrow, because her hour is come:
but as soon as she is delivered of the child, she remembereth no more the anguish,
for joy that a man is born into the world.
22 And ye now therefore have sorrow:
but I will see you again, and your heart shall rejoice,
and your joy no man taketh from you.
23 And in that day ye shall ask me nothing.
Verily, verily, I say unto you,
Whatsoever ye shall ask the Father in my name, he will give it you.
24 Hitherto have ye asked nothing in my name:
ask, and ye shall receive, that your joy may be full.
 
Having faith in Christ, knowing that his will is the will of his Father's, that he atoned for our sins, that he died and was resurrected in order for us to be able to follow can help us through our trials, sorrows, and times of despair. 
Always remember....
Peace I leave with you, my peace I give unto you:
not as the world giveth, give I unto you.
Let not your heart be troubled, neither let it be afraid.
John 14:27

Thursday, May 13, 2010

"...Will ye also go away?" John 6:67

Have you ever heard the teen years are difficult?  They are not just hard on teens, they are hard on parents.  I wonder how Heavenly Father felt watching the difficulties His only begotten Son had to endure? 
I have been reading in John 6, and as usual, found many, many things I would like my children to learn from Christ's example.
We learn:
The miracle of feeding the five thousand
He walked on water
He is the living manna from heaven
and
Gives life to the world
He is the Messiah.

A passage of scripture stands out - 
"...Will ye also go away?"

Elder Neil L. Anderson, who inspired this blog, stated,
"In their own loneliness, do our children know the loneliness the Savior felt as His friends deserted Him and as He asked His Apostles, “Will ye also go away?”

Christ,
who could communicate face to face with The Father,
could feel lonely, abandoned, and discouraged...
He had the same feelings and emotions as we do.
He can understand.

Imagine what he went through prior to speaking these words...
"Will ye also go away?"

People wanted something from him...they had heard that he could heal...
He blessed, fed, and taught those who sought him...
He calmed the winds and calmed fears...
He saw through the people who were with him just to have their physical needs fed, and wished they could look beyond today and see eternity... 
He had many leave him, because they would not meet his standard.

Imagine how tired he must have been when he said...
"Will ye also go away?"

It seems like weekly, sometimes daily, one of my children come to me with these same feelings about friends, and probably even about me. 

They seem so tired...

People...teachers...friends...siblings...parents...will want something from us ...
We work to please them, feed them, council and help them...
Sometimes we even calm the winds and their fears...
Some people are only in our lives for a short time, and not always for the right reasons.
But do they leave because they cannot meet our standard...or because we can't meet their's?

I hope my children will understand, as their Savior understood, that while at times they may feel lonely, abandoned, or discouraged, they can be blessed, fed, and taught with their "desire to keep (his) sayings" (JST John 6:26)
That they will hold to the standards they have been taught.
He has shown them how.
So...
"Will ye also go away?"
He won't